Acceptance and Adjustments

Hey everyone!! Welcome to today's article. In my blogs, we have always been talking a lot about self-help. Anything which helps to improve your personality and to be a better version of yourself is self-help for you. Today we are going to discuss a very important topic which is societal adjustment. 

Again, since our birth, we get in touch with a lot of social norms that we like or dislike according to our thought processes. According to me, our liking or disliking of the norms leading to ideologies-related tensions in today's households is the result of the generation gap. Now, the question arises, what should we do next? First, let us accept the fact that there are tensions and also accept that these tensions cannot be entirely deleted because this generation gap cannot be erased. Let's see what we can do to overcome this state of mismatching ideologies. 

A message to...

Our generation:       What I have noticed in the present day generation is their nature to revolt. I am personally the one who keeps on debating with all of my family members and friends against the current social systems. But what I have learned through my learnings and experiences is that we shouldn't try to change what others think because just like we cannot change our thoughts it is as difficult for others to change theirs too. Rather we should try to be the change we want. Don't force your thoughts on others but also don't stay away from following and chasing your desires. 

Older generations:      You guys out there are so civilized and well behaved that no one on this earth can neglect getting admired. Then why do these problems arise? What I have felt is that the way you think and behave is not the result of your ideologies but the result of the norms imposed on you by your previous generation that you somehow have to accept with time. And come on! don't worry there's nothing wrong with your doing this. Just try to be a less judgemental. You too get the same suggestion as the people of my generation get. Do whatever you like and want but never try to impose your ideology on someone else. And trust me this will work wonders for both of the generations.

The last common suggestion is... We should come to an agreement where both of the generations bend a bit towards each other to understand each other's ideologies as well as to keep our thoughts in front. We should embrace the truth that no ideology on this holy earth is wrong. It's our mental configuration that gives it the label of being wrong or right. 

So, that is all for today's blog. I hope you will like it. See you in my next blog. Till then goodbye and stay giggly.

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