If you are one of those who can't stop themself from speaking every now and then and you are looking for some tips to change this nature then you are at the right place.
Firstly, being very talkative or excessively extroverted is all okay! There's nothing to worry about it. Any person on this earth is born with both the characters: introvert as well as an extrovert. It's just that any one of the two characters is a bit dominant over the other and thus it shows its effect more often.
Before getting further into the depth of the topic it should be clear in mind that these two are just characters and none of the two can be kept over the other, none of them can be considered good or bad. To this, the question arises then why are we even discussing it?
It's only because both being extremely introverted and being extremely extroverted can prove to be an obstacle for you in different domains. For example: If you are extremely extroverted and you cannot stop yourself from speaking anything that comes to your mind then at times people can label you as an ill-mannered or mad person whereas when you are extremely introverted then you may face some issues in expressing yourself and even you may face difficulty in sitting an interview. What is to be noted here is that: you absolutely do not need to change yourself, you just need to modify and develop the other part of your nature just to maintain a balance between the two.
• Take deep breathing before reacting. This will sound tough but when you work on it gradually it becomes a habit. This breath gives you time to think about how you should react to a situation and will guide you in thinking what you should speak next.
• Listen to others and observe things around you. A good listener is always a great speaker. So, rather than focusing on your speaking skills try and focus on your listening skills first.
• Write what you think. This will surely help you to reduce your talkative nature and a present in disguise will be the writing skills that you will develop. And thus writing down your thoughts will help you to develop two different characters.
• Spend some time alone with nature, see, feel and observe what's around you. This will also help you in becoming a greater observant.
• Most of the people who talk too much seek justification from others because of lack of confidence. Stop thinking about what they think and stop justifying yourself. Work hard for developing confidence.
• Also people who think a lot about themselves tend to talk a lot in boasting about themselves. Thinking less about yourself can help a lot if you are in this way.
• Calm your mind, work out on temper controlling and meditate. Calming your mind, it can help in increasing thoughtfulness and thus can help you way too much. A calm mind thinks more and speaks less though apt and to the point.
So that's all for the article. I hope it helps.
If you are looking for reducing your introverted nature and are trying to become extrovert then part 1 of this section is linked below. Till then goodbye and stay giggly.
Thank you, Mr. Reader, for giving your time to my blogs.
Personality Development Series:
~Overcome your flaws and develop your personality:
https://gigglyhub.blogspot.com/2021/08/overcome-your-flaws-and-develop-your.html
~Dressing Sense and Body Language:
https://gigglyhub.blogspot.com/2021/09/personality-development-dressing-sense.html
~Tips for Anger Management:
https://gigglyhub.blogspot.com/2021/09/tips-for-anger-management-personality.html
~7 Best Tips to become an Extrovert:
https://gigglyhub.blogspot.com/2021/09/7-best-tips-to-become-extrovert.html
~7 Best tips to reduce your Talkative nature: Personality Development:
https://gigglyhub.blogspot.com/2021/09/7-best-tips-to-reduce-your-talkative.html
~7 Best tips to reduce your Talkative nature: Personality Development:
https://gigglyhub.blogspot.com/2021/09/7-best-tips-to-reduce-your-talkative.html
~Do this to Increase your Confidence: Personality Development:
0 Comments:
Post a Comment